50 WAYS TO PLEASE YOUR LOVER.

Love is when the other person’s happiness is more important than your own. H. Jackson Brown, Jr. Remember the song “50 Ways To Leave Your Lover” by Paul Simon? A female friend of mine once told me that this song made her very angry: “How dare anyone make suggestions about how to leave […]
MEANDERING THROUGH THE MAZE OF SOME QUOTES ON LOVE SEEKING SOME UNDERSTANDING OF THE PHENOMENA

Comments by Charles O. Anyiam-Osigwe. Immature love says: ‘I love you because I need you’. Mature loves says ‘I need you because l love you’. Eric Fromm This makes sense. Let us always meet each other with smiles, for a smile is the beginning of love. Mother Teresa But Mother (now […]
THERE IS ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS SOMETHING TO BE THANKFUL FOR

No matter how good or bad you have it, you must wake up each day thankful for your life, because someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for theirs. Truth be told, there is always “something” to be thankful for. There are ‘always’ others worse off in this world. The Mammy Wagon philosopher will have us […]
ADVICE PAPA GAVE ME – Where do I want to go?

My beloved daughter, “Where do I want to go?” This is a very important question to ask yourself from time to time as you journey through life. Remember, the question is “Where do I want to go?” not “Where do people want me to go?”. Asking yourself this question helps you to sincerely evaluate what […]
Relationship Trust Quiz

Is your relationship defined by honesty and dependability—or suspicion and betrayal? Research suggests that trust is an essential ingredient to a healthy relationship, but we all know how hard it can be to sustain. The quiz below measures how trusting you are. It is based on a “trust scale” developed by psychologists at the University […]
ADVICE PAPA GAVE ME: MARRIAGE IS A CONTRACT, READ THE FINE PRINT

My dear daughter, I have watched you grow up over the years, and I must confess that you have given me much joy. Now in your twenties, I am sure your thoughts sometimes turn to the subject of marriage. With this in mind, I want to share some of my thoughts on the subject. My […]